Tuesday, March 7, 2023

Yourself!!!

 Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror and smiled to say to the person looking at you " I love you".

Have you ever patted yourself on the back to congratulate self on a feat unnoticed by all ...

Time and again we forget our own self..one with whom we spend the most of our time and look towards others and their activities...

Too often than not we evaluate ourselves based on the judgement of others ignoring what we actually think of our own selves..

Could we give this a try and see the results for our own selves....

Lets forget what others would think of us...

Lets do what our heart whispers to us deep inside ....

Lets delve within and cherish our own uniqueness.....

Lets look at ourselves eye to eye and do a high five with our own selves....

Lets laugh it out for no reason at all....

Lets be courageous to shed a tear when we feel like it ....

Lets wear the purple ,the magenta if the inner voice points that to you....

Lets be bold enough to dance and sway to the rhythms that stir us from within...

Lets rejoice .... forgetting all the worries and setbacks that hold us back from being who we really are...

Is it really that difficult...

Its probably just a shift of mindset...

Its only a look within ...

Could we gift our own selves this perspective and bask in the thoughts thereafter....


Monday, January 17, 2022

 While its fine to be able to say YES , its important to be able to say NO whenever situations demand that you do so. The courage to say NO is inherent in all of us , its just that we prefer to look the other way around in an effort to please everyone .

We need to realise that WE are most important for ourselves and putting oneself in discomfort can never ensure that we convey comfort to others. With this perspective in mind its imperative that we should be confident and fine to refuse some demands, some requests , some tasks with the broader picture being accorded the due importance . 


Monday, May 25, 2020

Help and become powerful...

you become more powerful when you help someone... 

the notion prevails that only one who is powerful can help...when the reality is you become more powerful when you help...

one needs a lot of courage to be able to decide to tread on this endeavor...and yet when one is able to take the first step courage flows and power grows . 

we all need help at some point of time ..and it is said that what you give comes back to you ..and comes back in manifolds ...so while the world around you needs a lot of help there is always much more of it available round the corner too...

Its just about having an eye to identify the help coming and be reassured ... being hopeful of being able to get going on ones journey of life in the best possible way...to understand the power of intent ..if you intend to help ,it would also be forthcoming for you when you need it the most..

So..lets intend to help ...and then actually help those around us to become more powerful and empower all around us


 

We all wear masks.....



“We all wear masks, and the time comes when we cannot remove them without removing some of our own skin.”  ― AndrĂ© Berthiaume

Don't we all really wear masks ...and that too of our own choice ...and at times many of them...

We get on with our life and those of others in our periphery using one mask at a time.. sometime for convenience ...sometime for purpose...

As we tread on our journey we gradually forget our own selves and get akin with the masks we use and consequently lose our original selves..

Is that not a heavy price to pay ...and is it really worth it....and do we really introspect on that ..
And then there comes a time when the road ahead demands shedding off all of them..and it is then that we realise that eventually we are left with no other option but to shed our own skin too ...if we are to shed off those masks ..

So why really wear a mask..lets be original..lets be our own selves ..and lets get going on this wonderful journey of life in our own individual unique way. 

 

Saturday, May 16, 2020

We All Need Some Help...

We All Need Some Help...Don't We...
Maybe a pat on the shoulder..or a sign of appreciation..
A smile from a stranger in difficult times..
A patient pair of ears ready to listen..
At times they are great help for many of us...

An affectionate hug when all seems lost and gone...
Someone holding your hand in assurance of being there..
Or Maybe someone just walking alongside silently with you..
At times they are great help for many of us..

A call from a distant friend after many a years..
A letter of concern from one not in touch...
A message expressing good wishes from someone unexpected..
At times they are great help for many of us..

We all need some help...don't we..
We All look forward to some help..Don't We...

Tuesday, May 12, 2020

You are Unique

Ever wondered why they termed it as a rat race...after all we are not running after cheese..
Would you really look forward to be a rat..if not..then why waste precious time and energy in this futile race.. even if you win it you still remain a rat... Think over...

Is it not better to be your own self and customise the pace of your journey yourself rather than subscribing to a standard enunciated ...Let's enjoy this beautiful journey and make it more worthwhile rather than finish off in a hurry..It is a personal journey ..so decide on your tread ahead with care ..

You are Unique ..so let it be for the journey ahead..one to remember..cherish ....

Monday, May 11, 2020

Lets Be ... Ourselves...

Have you ever looked at your own self in the mirror with an eye of observation...
In our rush to look at others and their way of Life..we have forgotten our own selves..we continue to expend time observing others and their journey..and then in our valiant endeavours to encompass the observations into our journey we gradually end up being someone not to be...
Why not try differently... Come let's go within own selves..identify our individual potential and develop them.. LETS BE OURSELVES...our true self..in a state of bliss..content and fulfilled....